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		<title>Pat Samples Offers Peace of Mind</title>
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		<title>Increasing Sales: The 8 things I did to absolutely nail my best week in sales EVER!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[This has officially been my best week in sales EVER. I wanted to share with you what i did differently. I&#8217;m not writing this to brag. I&#8217;m writing it to share so that if there is even one thing in there you can apply to your business to boost your results then my work is]]></description>
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		<title>It &#039;s Not About Knowing the Information – It&#039;s About Personally Applying the Information!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been on the &#039;speaking circuit&#039; a fair bit over the past few weeks and have met hundreds of really special people. I am grateful for the invitations to share my information as I know that it really does make a difference in the lives of these people. However, sometimes I hear comments such as: I know &#039;this stuff&#039;. This is all common sense. That&#039;s nothing new. So what? Who Cares? (Those comments, along with all the positive feedback that I get – of course!) Those are the statements that really speak to my heart. Intellectually, yes, we all know &#039;this stuff&#039;. My question to you, then, is: "Why aren&#039;t you applying this information so as to make a difference in your life?" How many great books have you bought with the intention of learning, and applying, the information? How many books have you bought, with great intentions, and those books are sitting on a shelf somewhere in your home (or office)? Research shows that many of the very popular Home Study Systems, currently on the market, are still sitting on shelves, in people&#039;s homes – and the plastic wrap is still on it! (Is this you?) It all goes back to intention! And yes, it IS that easy. When we have goals – when we plan certain aspects of our lives – we begin to live our life by intent. That&#039;s very exciting! What I do recommend is having the resources to help us with this process. When you have trouble with your car, you take it to a mechanic. When you have dental problems, you go to a dentist. When you need financial advice, you meet with a financial planner. Why would you &#039;steer&#039; your life any differently? Most often, we don&#039;t know what we don&#039;t know – and there are people and resources to help us. On the trip around the world, one of the things that totally fascinated me was the way people in Africa helped each other. I overheard one of the men, in this particular scenario, say "Many hands make for light work!" Words of wisdom! (If you&#039;d like more information on these trips, contact my friend, Ben, President, Travel Guild at 1.800.268.4284) I work with an amazing business coach, Fabienne Fredrickson. I intend to take my business to new heights over the next few years – in which case, I want to work with the best of the best. Set the intention of what you want your life to look like and feel like. Find the resources to help make it happen. It really IS that easy. "If you don&#039;t invent your future, someone else will!" – Lou Tice Steps2Happiness Assignment Look back at the Balance Wheel that you created, as a result of last week&#039;s article. What is your intention with what you created? What DO you want to have happen in your life that&#039;s not happening now? What books/resources do you have available to help you in some areas of your life? Take baby steps, today, and live your life by intent!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> I have been on the &#039;speaking circuit&#039; a fair bit over the past few weeks and have met hundreds of really special people. I am grateful for the invitations to share my information as I know that it really does make a difference in the lives of these people. However, sometimes I hear comments such as: I know &#039;this stuff&#039;. This is all common sense. That&#039;s nothing new. So what? Who Cares? (Those comments, along with all the positive feedback that I get – of course!) Those are the statements that really speak to my heart. Intellectually, yes, we all know &#039;this stuff&#039;. My question to you, then, is: &#8220;Why aren&#039;t you applying this information so as to make a difference in your life?&#8221; How many great books have you bought with the intention of learning, and applying, the information? How many books have you bought, with great intentions, and those books are sitting on a shelf somewhere in your home (or office)? Research shows that many of the very popular Home Study Systems, currently on the market, are still sitting on shelves, in people&#039;s homes – and the plastic wrap is still on it! (Is this you?) It all goes back to intention! And yes, it IS that easy. When we have goals – when we plan certain aspects of our lives – we begin to live our life by intent. That&#039;s very exciting! What I do recommend is having the resources to help us with this process. When you have trouble with your car, you take it to a mechanic. When you have dental problems, you go to a dentist. When you need financial advice, you meet with a financial planner. Why would you &#039;steer&#039; your life any differently? Most often, we don&#039;t know what we don&#039;t know – and there are people and resources to help us. On the trip around the world, one of the things that totally fascinated me was the way people in Africa helped each other. I overheard one of the men, in this particular scenario, say &#8220;Many hands make for light work!&#8221; Words of wisdom! (If you&#039;d like more information on these trips, contact my friend, Ben, President, Travel Guild at 1.800.268.4284) I work with an amazing business coach, Fabienne Fredrickson. I intend to take my business to new heights over the next few years – in which case, I want to work with the best of the best. Set the intention of what you want your life to look like and feel like. Find the resources to help make it happen. It really IS that easy. &#8220;If you don&#039;t invent your future, someone else will!&#8221; – Lou Tice Steps2Happiness Assignment Look back at the Balance Wheel that you created, as a result of last week&#039;s article. What is your intention with what you created? What DO you want to have happen in your life that&#039;s not happening now? What books/resources do you have available to help you in some areas of your life? Take baby steps, today, and live your life by intent! </p>
<p>Link:<br />
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		<title>Farrah Fawcett’s Trust provides a good lesson</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been widely reported across various websites in the last couple days that Farrah Fawcett&#8217;s will has been revealed and it &#8220;shockingly&#8221; disinherited her longtime ex-boyfriend Ryan O&#8217;Neal (father to her son, Redmond).  These reports are wrong on several levels. First, the document was her Trust, not her will.  You can read it here , courtesy of Radaronline.com.  This is an important distinction.  Wills are public records and must always be filed in probate to be effective, which allows anyone interested to read them.  Trusts, on the other hand, are private documents, normally kept out of court and the public eye. As I wrote in this article this past July, the contents of Fawcett&#8217;s Trust were leaked by an anonymous &#8220;source&#8221; then, and now the whole trust document has been revealed.  This is unusual.  Normally that is one of the primary reasons why trusts are used, to keep affairs private (and out of probate court). As the source previously leaked to the media (and as covered in my article on this blog in July), it was  revealed then that Ryan O&#8217;Neal was not a beneficiary.  So the recent exposure of the trust document is nothing new on that front.  O&#8217;Neal said publicly that he was not surprised and had discussed with Fawcett that their son Redmond would be the biggest beneficiary. So what did the trust reveal?  ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://probatelitigation.typepad.com/.a/6a01053645c43a970b0120a6b91a8c970b-pi"><img class="alignleft" style="border: 0px initial initial;" title="Fawcett family" src="http://www.trialandheirs.com/wp-content/plugins/wp-o-matic/cache/b5308_6a01053645c43a970b0120a6b91a8c970b-200wi" alt="Fawcett family" width="200" height="145" /></a>It’s been widely reported across various websites in the last couple days that Farrah Fawcett’s will has been revealed and it “shockingly” disinherited her longtime ex-boyfriend Ryan O’Neal (father to her son, Redmond).  These reports are wrong on several levels. First, the document was her Trust, not her will.  You can read it here , courtesy of Radaronline.com.</p>
<p>This is an important distinction.  Wills are public records and must always be filed in probate to be effective, which allows anyone interested to read them.  Trusts, on the other hand, are private documents, normally kept out of court and the public eye. As I wrote in this article this past July, the contents of Fawcett’s Trust were leaked by an anonymous “source” then, and now the whole trust document has been revealed.  This is unusual.</p>
<p>Normally that is one of the primary reasons why trusts are used, to keep affairs private (and out of probate court). As the source previously leaked to the media (and as covered in my article on this blog in July), it was  revealed then that Ryan O’Neal was not a beneficiary.  So the recent exposure of the trust document is nothing new on that front.  O’Neal said publicly that he was not surprised and had discussed with Fawcett that their son Redmond would be the biggest beneficiary. So what did the trust reveal?  The real surprising part here isn’t that O’Neal was omitted (ex-boyfriends aren’t usually included in a trust).</p>
<p>Rather, to me, there were far more surprising elements, including that another of Fawcett’s ex-boyfriends, Gregory Lawrence Lott, received $100,000.  Further, her artwork was left to the University of Texas, her other personal property, including her household furnishings and vehicles, went to her nephew (who also received $500,000 outright), and her father received a trust fund of $500,000, from will benefit him while he is alive.  Fawcett’s charitable foundation is also a prominent beneficiary. Who will manage this trust?  Fawcett’s business manager and producer, Richard Francis.  He will be charged with the difficult task of overseeing these bequests — and more importantly — the trust fund established for Fawcett’s troubled son, Redmond. It has been widely reported that Redmond has struggled with drug addiction for years.  Fawcett obviously knew this when she created this particular trust document on August 9, 2007.  So, instead of leaving him money outright, she left $4.5 million to be used for his benefit through a trust fund.  When he passes away, what is left from that fund will go onto her charitable foundation.</p>
<p>The specifics of how this will work are a good lesson for others to follow when they have a beneficiary who is not ready to receive a chunk of change all at once.  The trustee of the Trust, Francis, will be required to pay the income from the trust fund to Redmond — or apply it for his benefit — at least 4 times year, and as often as monthly.  If this $4.5 million is conservatively invested to generate even a modest 5% return, this would mean almost $19,000 per month would be available for Redmond, without ever spending any of the $4.5 million itself. Francis can also tap into the $4.5 million itself for Redmond, but only to the extent it is advisable for his health.  This means the money (again, other than the interest earned) cannot be used for things like education, housing, etc. — only health.  Clearly, Fawcett thought this through, because she gave the same trustee rights to use the trust fund money set aside for Fawcett’s father for many other needs beyond just health. This trust provision allows Francis to carefully control the money so Redmond is benefited the best way possible.  And, for a drug addict like he is reported to be, this means Francis can spend as much as he deems advisable for rehabilitation (which would clearly improve Redmond’s health), without paying anything directly to him for fear of it being spent on drugs, etc. The only flaw I see in the plan is that Francis is obligated to pay the interest on Redmond’s behalf at least 4 times each year.  This is still quite a significant sum of money to be spent on him, if his life isn’t in a position to benefit by it.  Plus, it is odd that things like education and housing wouldn’t be included, but that appears to be what Fawcett wanted. Often, in my law firm , we recommend crafting specific trust provisions for people with drug and/or alcohol addictions that requires them to prove sobriety before receiving money, or tying other specific strings to distributions of money so that this goal can be achieved (such as requiring payments for drug rehabilitation programs). The beauty of properly-used trusts is that you can be creative and use conditions like this for all sorts of reasons, in addition to sobriety, including promoting hard work, maintaining good relationships, education, and many other goals.  We explore how trusts can do this in our book, Trial &amp; Heirs:  Famous Fortune Fights!, which helps families learn from celebrity errors how to properly plan for their heirs. Fawcett gets a lot of credit for using a trust the right way to protect her son and still allow him to benefit from her money.  Too many rich and famous people don’t do this.  For example, as we discuss in Trial &amp; Heirs, celebrities such as Martin Luther King, Jr., Jimi Hendrix, Sonny Bono, and Howard Hughes didn’t even have wills, much less trusts. Trusts are not just for rich people.  Anyone with family members they want to leave money to when they die, but are worried what the money may do to them when they get it, should strongly consider creating a revocable living trust with the help of a good estate planning attorney. Not sure how to find a good attorney?  Click here for a new way to help you. Posted by:  Author and probate attorney Andrew W. Mayoras, co-author of Trial &amp; Heirs:  Famous Fortune Fights! and co-founder and shareholder of The Center for Probate Litigation and The Center for Elder Law in metro-Detroit, Michigan, which concentrate in probate litigation, estate planning, and elder law.  You can email him at blog @ trialandheirs.com.</p>
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<p>It’s been widely reported across various websites in the last couple days that Farrah Fawcett’s will has been revealed and it “shockingly” disinherited her longtime ex-boyfriend Ryan O’Neal (father to her son, Redmond).  These reports are wrong on several levels.</p>
<p>First, the document was her Trust, not her will.  You can <a href="http://www.radaronline.com/sites/default/files/FarrahFawcettWillREVISED.pdf" target="_blank">read it here</a>, courtesy of Radaronline.com.  This is an important distinction.  Wills are public records and must always be filed in probate to be effective, which allows anyone interested to read them.  Trusts, on the other hand, are private documents, normally kept out of court and the public eye.</p>
<p>As I wrote in <a href="http://www.probatelawyerblog.com/2009/07/preview-into-farrahs-fawcetts-will-and-trust.html" target="_blank">this article</a> this past July, the contents of Fawcett’s Trust were leaked by an anonymous “source” then, and now the whole trust document has been revealed.  This is unusual.  Normally that is one of the primary reasons why trusts are used, to keep affairs private (and out of probate court).</p>
<p>As the source previously leaked to the media (and as covered in my article on this blog in July), it was  revealed then that Ryan O’Neal was not a beneficiary.  So the recent exposure of the trust document is nothing new on that front.  O’Neal said publicly that he was not surprised and had discussed with Fawcett that their son Redmond would be the biggest beneficiary.</p>
<p>So what did the trust reveal?  The real surprising part here isn’t that O’Neal was omitted (ex-boyfriends aren’t usually included in a trust).  Rather, to me, there were far more surprising elements, including that another of Fawcett’s ex-boyfriends, Gregory Lawrence Lott, received $100,000.  Further, her artwork was left to the University of Texas, her other personal property, including her household furnishings and vehicles, went to her nephew (who also received $500,000 outright), and her father received a trust fund of $500,000, from will benefit him while he is alive.  Fawcett’s charitable foundation is also a prominent beneficiary.</p>
<p>Who will manage this trust?  Fawcett’s business manager and producer, Richard Francis.  He will be charged with the difficult task of overseeing these bequests — and more importantly — the trust fund established for Fawcett’s troubled son, Redmond.</p>
<p>It has been widely reported that Redmond has struggled with drug addiction for years.  Fawcett obviously knew this when she created this particular trust document on August 9, 2007.  So, instead of leaving him money outright, she left $4.5 million to be used for his benefit through a trust fund.  When he passes away, what is left from that fund will go onto her charitable foundation.</p>
<p>The specifics of how this will work are a good lesson for others to follow when they have a beneficiary who is not ready to receive a chunk of change all at once.  The trustee of the Trust, Francis, will be required to pay the income from the trust fund to Redmond — or apply it for his benefit — at least 4 times year, and as often as monthly.  If this $4.5 million is conservatively invested to generate even a modest 5% return, this would mean almost $19,000 per month would be available for Redmond, without ever spending any of the $4.5 million itself.</p>
<p>Francis can also tap into the $4.5 million itself for Redmond, but only to the extent it is advisable for his health.  This means the money (again, other than the interest earned) cannot be used for things like education, housing, etc. — only health.  Clearly, Fawcett thought this through, because she gave the same trustee rights to use the trust fund money set aside for Fawcett’s father for many other needs beyond just health.</p>
<p>This trust provision allows Francis to carefully control the money so Redmond is benefited the best way possible.  And, for a drug addict like he is reported to be, this means Francis can spend as much as he deems advisable for rehabilitation (which would clearly improve Redmond’s health), without paying anything directly to him for fear of it being spent on drugs, etc.</p>
<p>The only flaw I see in the plan is that Francis is obligated to pay the interest on Redmond’s behalf at least 4 times each year.  This is still quite a significant sum of money to be spent on him, if his life isn’t in a position to benefit by it.  Plus, it is odd that things like education and housing wouldn’t be included, but that appears to be what Fawcett wanted.</p>
<p>Often, in my <a href="http://www.thecenterforelderlaw.com/lawyer-attorney-1393621.html" target="_blank">law firm</a>, we recommend crafting specific trust provisions for people with drug and/or alcohol addictions that requires them to prove sobriety before receiving money, or tying other specific strings to distributions of money so that this goal can be achieved (such as requiring payments for drug rehabilitation programs).</p>
<p>The beauty of properly-used trusts is that you can be creative and use conditions like this for all sorts of reasons, in addition to sobriety, including promoting hard work, maintaining good relationships, education, and many other goals.  We explore how trusts can do this in our book, <a href="http://www.trialandheirs.com/?page_id=235" target="_blank">Trial &amp; Heirs:  Famous Fortune Fights!,</a> which helps families learn from celebrity errors how to properly plan for their heirs.</p>
<p>Fawcett gets a lot of credit for using a trust the right way to protect her son and still allow him to benefit from her money.  Too many rich and famous people don’t do this.  For example, as we discuss in Trial &amp; Heirs, celebrities such as Martin Luther King, Jr., Jimi Hendrix, Sonny Bono, and Howard Hughes didn’t even have wills, much less trusts.</p>
<p>Trusts are not just for rich people.  Anyone with family members they want to leave money to when they die, but are worried what the money may do to them when they get it, should strongly consider creating a revocable living trust with the help of a good estate planning attorney.</p>
<p>Not sure how to find a good attorney?  <a href="http://www.trialandheirs.com/yourstory/">Click here for a new way to help you.</a></p>
<p><span><span><em>Posted by:  Author and probate attorney Andrew W. Mayoras, co-author of Trial &amp; Heirs:  Famous Fortune Fights! and co-founder and shareholder of </em><em><a href="http://probatelitigationmi.com/" target="_blank">The Center for Probate Litigation</a></em><em> and </em><em><a href="http://www.thecenterforelderlaw.com/" target="_blank">The Center for Elder Law</a> </em><em>in metro-Detroit, Michigan, which concentrate in probate litigation, estate planning, and elder law.  You can email him at blog @ trialandheirs.com.</em></span></span></div>
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		<title>Feng Shui Preparations for 2010</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The year 2010 begins on February 14 and will be represented by the tiger&#8212;-a metal tiger to be specific.  The tiger naturally holds wood energy based on the concept of the traveling stars (Chinese zodiac); the year according to the Taoist calendar is a metal one.  Without going into the details of the Chinese 5 Elements, let me point out that when metal and wood try to team up, metal has a definite advantage.  Metal represents a weapon such as a sword or gun and the tiger represents the fresh wood of springtime&#8212;-no match for a metal weapon.  This is a combination that is definitely in conflict. Based on this, 2010 will not be a peaceful one, according to Raymond Lo, international Feng Shui master.  Although we will see some economic recovery from the turbulence of 2009, there will be more international disagreements, more clashing and more fighting.  The metal energy is a destructive weapon.  Since most of us aren&#8217;t in a position to actively intervene in these world-wide affairs to facilitate peace, my best advice is to try to influence your immediate world, bringing peace to the planet in your own home.  Here are some ways to maximize your luck next year, to minimize the challenges, and to bring about some global peace as well: 1.  Bless your home.   Your home is your part of the planet that you can impact and inspire.  Take a few moments to appreciate and honor it by walking through with a candle, incense, or just your heart-felt intentions.  Heal your own internal wars. 2.  Deal with your clutter. You know where it lurks&#8212;-get rid of it.  It does not create peace in your space. 3.  Do good deeds.   Do one good deed a day to offset the global turbulence. 4.  Put a pig in a blanket.  According to Chinese zodiac tradition, the tiger and the pig are best friends.  In order to keep the tiger on your side and to diminish the negative influences of what could be a challenging year, carry a picture or a small figurine of a pig who will intercede on your behalf (blanket optional). 5.  Line up 5 friends.   Think of five people&#8212;dead or alive, real or legendary, human or deity&#8212;who would be your friends in time of need.  Get them lined up in your mind before you actually need them so that you take the time to carefully and thoughtfully make your selection.  Then, when a crisis hits, you&#8217;ll be prepared.  You can call on them either literally or in an energetic way. No matter what animal sign you may be in the Chinese zodiac system, following any or all of the above suggestions will help you navigate through any difficulties you may encounter.]]></description>
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<p>The year 2010 begins on February 14 and will be represented by the tiger&#8212;-a metal tiger to be specific.  The tiger <img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-286" title="tigerchinese" src="http://smartwomenscoaching.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/57c3ab646093x300.gif.gif" alt="tigerchinese" width="129" height="110" />naturally holds wood energy based on the concept of the traveling stars (Chinese zodiac); the year according to the Taoist calendar is a metal one.  Without going into the details of the Chinese 5 Elements, let me point out that when metal and wood try to team up, metal has a definite advantage.  Metal represents a weapon such as a sword or gun and the tiger represents the fresh wood of springtime&#8212;-no match for a metal weapon.  This is a combination that is definitely in conflict.</p>
<p>Based on this, 2010 will not be a peaceful one, according to Raymond Lo, international Feng Shui master.  Although we will see some economic recovery from the turbulence of 2009, there will be more international disagreements, more clashing and more fighting.  The metal energy is a destructive weapon.  Since most of us aren&#8217;t in a position to actively intervene in these world-wide affairs to facilitate peace, my best advice is to try to influence your immediate world, bringing peace to the planet in your own home.  Here are some ways to maximize your luck next year, to minimize the challenges, and to bring about some global peace as well:</p>
<p><strong><em>1.  Bless your home.</em></strong>  Your home is your part of the planet that you can impact and inspire.  Take a few moments to appreciate and honor it by walking through with a candle, incense, or just your heart-felt intentions.  Heal your own internal wars.</p>
<p><strong><em>2.  Deal with your clutter. </em></strong>You know where it lurks&#8212;-get rid of it.  It does not create peace in your space.</p>
<p><strong><em>3.  Do good deeds.</em></strong>  Do one good deed a day to offset the global turbulence.</p>
<p><strong><em>4.  Put a pig in a blanket.  </em></strong>According to Chinese zodiac tradition, the tiger and the pig are best friends.  In order to keep the tiger on your side and to diminish the negative influences of what could be a challenging year, carry a picture or a small figurine of a pig who will intercede on your behalf (blanket optional).</p>
<p><strong><em>5.  Line up 5 friends.</em></strong>  Think of five people&#8212;dead or alive, real or legendary, human or deity&#8212;who would be your friends in time of need.  Get them lined up in your mind before you actually need them so that you take the time to carefully and thoughtfully make your selection.  Then, when a crisis hits, you&#8217;ll be prepared.  You can call on them either literally or in an energetic way.</p>
<p>No matter what animal sign you may be in the Chinese zodiac system, following any or all of the above suggestions will help you navigate through any difficulties you may encounter.</p>
<p>Read more here:<br />
<a target="_blank" href="http://blog.carolehyder.com/2009/11/19/feng-shui-preparations-for-2010/" class="broken_link"  title="Feng Shui Preparations for 2010">Feng Shui Preparations for 2010</a></p>
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